Since I got my American Express Black Card, a lot of people have asked me where I have used it or what I have bought with it. I am sorry to say that I have not made any ridiculous purchases with it (yet). I have bought food, airline tickets, radio equipment, and a couple lap dances, sorry relaxation therapy sessions…..

Come on, you know me, of course I needed to flash the new American Express Black Card at least once in a gentleman’s club.

Anyhow, since getting this mysterious titanium black amex card, it got me thinking about “the big picture”. I could literally go on life tilt and buy just about anything I wanted courtesy of the fine people from the American Express Centurion Division. Of course I would have to face the consequences, but I suppose I really could do it.

It’s fun having one, but in the overall game of life it really doesn’t define even 1% of who you are. There are hundreds of important things you cannot buy with any amount of cash or credit. Here’s 10 of them. Yes even the Centurion concierge’s cannot get you these:

10 Things You Cannot Buy With An American Express Black Card

1. Love - Nothing can replace loving or being loved by your spouse and children.

2. Happiness - Money can buy happiness, but if money is the only thing that makes you happy, you need to re-evaluate what your priorities in life are.

3. Respect - People that respect you because of the credit card in your wallet are probably respecting you for the wrong reasons.

4. Appreciation - People appreciate the kind of person you are and the value you bring to the world. If people appreciate you for your money, you’re being used.

5. Sharing - There is no greater satisfaction in life than the look on someones face who is less fortunate when you share your wealth with them.

6. Honesty - Honesty is the foundation of any successful business or personal relationship. Call your Centurion Concierge and ask if you can buy your way out of problems created by being dishonest.

7. Forgiveness - Similar to honesty, no black card or amount of money in the world can buy you forgiveness when you are dishonest. Always tell the truth and keep a clear conscience.

8. Integrity - Regardless of what is in your wallet, being a person of integrity is defined by what you do when nobody is watching.

9. Compassion - You cannot buy compassion, either you have it or you don’t.

10. Balance In Life - You can have all the money in the world, a huge house, fancy cars, and of course a black amex card with no limit. But remember, when our time is done in this world and it’s time to check out; you will reflect upon the 10 things listed here and not a silly credit card.